Welcome to life. There will be times when you will believe that this experience belongs to you alone. You will question your suffering and you will ask why it is yours to bear. You will feel singled out and you will believe that no other will ever understand how this feels. Everyone will seem blessed, as you struggle through your difficulties. They will seem untouched by lost loves and disappointment. You are welcome to hide your difficulties; it is a common reaction. You are encouraged to imagine that this experience belongs to you alone. You are guided to believe that your feelings are somehow different. Imagine that you are unique in your love. This is good way to accept such a beautiful gift. Life will always involve love and tears. It is a part of being human.